This really made me stop and think

A member of a certain church, who previously had been attending services regularly, stopped going. After a few weeks, the preacher decided to visit him. It was a chilly evening. The preacher found the man at home alone, sitting before a blazing fire. Guessing the reason for his preachers visit, the man welcomed him, led him to a comfortable chair near the fireplace and waited.

The preacher made himself at home but said nothing. In the grave silence, he contemplated the dance of the flames around the burning logs. After some minutes, the preacher took the fire tongs, carefully picked up a brightly burning ember and placed it to one side of the hearth all alone then he sat back in his chair, still silent.

The host watched all this in quiet contemplation. As the one lone ember’s flame flickered and diminished, there was a momentary glow and then its fire was no more. Soon it was cold and dead. Not a word had been spoken since the initial greeting. The preacher glanced at his watch and realized it was time to leave. He slowly stood up, picked up the cold, dead ember and placed it back in the middle of the fire. Immediately it began to glow, once more with the light and warmth of the burning coals around it.

As the preacher reached the door to leave, his host said with a tear running down his cheek, ‘Thank you so much for your visit and especially for the fiery sermon. I shall be back in church next Sunday.’

We live in a world today, which tries to say too much with too little. Consequently, few listen. Sometimes the best sermons are the ones left unspoken.  Words can strengthen you or not but a lesson without words is one that will touch you in ways words can’t.  I guess the saying “Silence is golden” would apply here because the silence taught far more than any words could have.

The kids are over the moon

I finally have a minute to write a blog.  The kids are absolutely over the moon.  They haven’t slowed down long enough to hardly sleep since they opened all of their presents and Santa came.  I think this has been the best Christmas they have ever had.

There was absolutely nothing they asked for that they didn’t get.  In fact, they got more……….much more than they asked for.  Nothing does a mothers heart better than to see their children happy on Christmas.  I am truly blessed to have my children and the people around me that have filled my life with so much love and joy.  I only hope you have the same.  God bless you each and all.  Now on to a new year!!!!

Happy Birthday Girlfriend

Today is my best friend in the worlds birthday.  We have been best friends since 4th grade.  That’s a long time.  She’s not only one of the most caring people I know, but also a great mother.  She has two daughters and the youngest was born just 4 weeks after my youngest.  The coolest part of that is her daughter and my son are best friends too.  Isn’t that just the sweetest thing?  I think so.

I was trying to decide what to get her for her birthday and decided the best thing I can do is to get her a Visa gift card.  That way, she can spend it how ever she wants.  She can go have her hair done, buy some new clothes for herself or take her girls out on the town and enjoy the day together if she wants.  I got her a nice card and mailed it so that she will get it this weekend and hopefully have a great weekend.  She already had some plans for today so that’s why I waited.

HERE’S TO YOU GIRLFRIEND!!!!!

The first day is finally here

The first day of school is finally here!  All the kids were excited to be going back even though the boys had to belly ache a bit just for good measure but I know they were looking forward to going back to see all their friends and see who was in their class.

I remember the first day of school very well.  Times like these make me think of my oldest sons father that died in a motorcycle accident before my son was born.  He loved school, he just didn’t like to do the work.  He had a great sense of humor and could make anything fun or funny if it may be.  I still miss him.  I look at my son and see so much of him.  I miss my other baby that died too.

Today is a day of only good thoughts!!  I have to keep focused on the positive and not the negative or life becomes too hard.  Does that make any sense to you?  It does to me anyway.  So we’re off to a good start to a new school year full of hopes and dreams of what the new year will bring.  That’s as it should be, ya know.

Thank God for ‘Tools for School’

I was having trouble getting my children all they needed for back to school between the necessary school uniforms and all the supplies.  Luckily my children qualified for help from ‘Tools for School’ that a lot of local businesses and churches have collected to help out families in need.

It really does my heart good to know that these items are offered to families in need without degrading them in the process.  I found out that if a child received discount or free lunch last year at school, the school contacts these families and offers them the supplies at no cost.  I love this community for all the help they give families in need.  I hope other states do the same.  I just want to thank everyone personally that has donated to ‘Tools for School’.

Back to school shopping

It’s almost back to school time so that means new clothes, shoes, and school supplies out the wazoo.  The kids are both excited and not really wanting to go back yet but I know better.  They can’t wait to get back to school to see their friends and find out what everyone did for the summer.  I just can’t wait for them to go back to school so I don’t have to find sitters anymore.

The best day in a long time


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This day couldn’t have been better if I had custom ordered it.  A bunch of us got together and went to a local lake on a friend’s pontoon and had a blast.  We fished, (I caught the biggest one) we played music, we laughed and we just had a great time.  It wasn’t too hot and it wasn’t too cold.  I’m telling you it was a perfect day.  There’s nothing better than being on the water, sunshine, and good friends and I had it all today.  I don’t get to go out without my children very often so it was a real treat but I have to admit.  I ended up feeling guilty that I didnt bring them along.  Mom let them play on the slip n slide in her back yard so they had a good time too.

That’s not a bill!!!

My daily mail usually consists of mainly an assorted junk mail and bills.  So imagine my delight to find only one single piece of mail, all by it’s lonesome, sitting in my box this afternoon.  It was almost like hitting the lottery when I realized this one piece of mail just so happened to be my tax rebate check.  Now that I know how much it is, Ineed to do some serious thought on what is the best way to use this.  I have to make it go as far as I possibly can and one things for sure, I will do that.  School will start again before you know it and my children will all need a lot of things for that so this will help a great deal.  It will also pay for a new comptuer too.

Buffet books

I didn’t know Jimmy Buffet wrote books along with some great music but he does.  I always enjoyed the tropical type music that he is so well known for producing so when I heard that he has written some books lately, I couldn’t wait to find one. I was thrilled to find one of his books called “A Salty Piece of Land” at my favorite used book stores for only $2.   I’ve really enjoyed reading it this past week. I’m glad that inside of the book it tells me the names of his other books that I will need to see if I can find too. I’m especially interesting in finding the one entitled “A Pirate Looks At Fifty”, if I can’t find it locally then I guess I could always look on-line and see if I can find it somewhere out there in cyber-world.

Online Coupons

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Everything is getting harder and harder to afford.  My poor beagle Belle is a part of our family but sometimes I’m not sure I can afford to keep her.  I found all sorts of online coupons for not only dog products but everywhere you can imagine.  All I was looking for was discount dog food and found discount everything.  A lot of the coupons for the stores also include free shipping of the products you purchase.  You save money with the coupon, you save on shipping and you save gas all at the same time.