There are some sick people in this world

I had heard about the young woman that had been held in her parents cellar for 24 years along with her 7 children that her father fathered with her.  What an absolutely awful thing this so called man did to his daughter.  I’m sorry but his wife should have been charged too.  There’s no way she didn’t know what was going on.

Well now I have learned about an 18 year old young woman that was abducted when she was 10 years old and held captive in a mans basement for 8 and a half years.  She managed to escape and the man committed suicide.  That’s a cowards way out if you ask me.  The worst part of both of these stories is what the younger woman said:

“Life in freedom doesn’t feel as good as I once imagined,” she told Austria’s Krone newspaper. She said her life had “changed radically” on the day of her escape, but that she still does not feel “really free”.

She told the Austrian Press Agency that the public’s expectations of victims of crime were “astonishing”. She said that if victims tried to hide away, they would be faced with accusations that the public had the right to know what happened. But if they gave in to pressure and told some of their story, they would be accused of seeking the limelight, and consequently be seen as public figures with little right to privacy, she added.

She may face more questioning by the authorities over the next few months, as the investigations continue. “I’m not afraid of more questioning but I find it unpleasant,” she told the Kurier.  “I feel like an uprooted orchid,” she said. “Some people try to plant me where they would like to have me. But I want to grow in a place I’ve chosen myself.”

Happy Independence Day!!!

I love the 4th of July!!  We really go all out to decorate, well we do that for every holiday but there’s just something about Independence Day that I love!!  We always have a huge community picnic type party with grilled hot dogs and hamburgers with all the fixin’s and of course potato salad, baked beans and we can’t forget the banana pudding and homemade ice cream.

Then there’s the fireworks display.  I love all of the laughter, ooohhh’s and aaahhh’s from the children when the fireworks start.  It’s just a wonderful time for all!!!   I hope each and everyone of you have a wonderful 4th of July and remember what the celebration is all about, our independence!!!

I admit it, I’m a Dancing with the Stars junkie!

I don’t take much time to watch TV but on Monday night and Tuesday night, I’m glued to the TV for Dancing with the Stars!  I have been a fan since the first season.  I always wanted to take dance lessons but my father wouldn’t let me for some reason so I guess I sort of live my dreams through watching them dance on TV.

I just hate that tonight is the season finale.   I sure have had a hard time guessing who would make it this far.  I really thought Lil Kim would have been in the final four but that’s not the way it happened at all.  That just goes to show how much the viewers votes determine who stays and who goes.  Did you see the freestyle dance Shawn and Mark did.  They got straight 10’s and should have.  It was by far the best freestyle of the night.  I found it on youtube just in case you missed it.

I need some extra storage

I really need some extra storage space and I found it at carguygarage.com.   It’s a family owned company that has everything I’m looking for to create extra storage space in my garage.  This is the best part of this site, if you know of a product they don’t have, you can call them and they’ll try and get it.  That’s what you get when you go with a family owned company.  That type of service is something a lot of companies have gotten away from and that also might be one of the reasons other companies fail too but that’s my opinion.  So if you’re looking for storage help, I highly recommend you check out this site.  I bet you’ll find just what you need.

I wish I had a bird like this

If I had a parrot like this in my critters, I’m sure that he would bring in a lot of people if even for just the day to see him.  He would be a perfect addition to my little petting zoo.  Speaking of my petting zoo, we’re having babies left and right.  I guess it’s that time of year ya know.  The petting zoo has been closed over the winter because who wants to pet a muddy animal in the cold?  We will be opening it back up once the temperature starts going up but until then, people can see the animals from outside the fence.  Besides, some of the new mothers don’t want you too close to their new babies.  Anyway, check out this parrot!!  He is amazing.

Some women hate being called this but not me!!!

I have read this before many times but wanted to share it with you because this is who I am.  Yes I have been called this many times because I don’t compromise.  I am my own person and no one is going to change that.  So if that sounds like you, read on!!!

BITCHOLOGY

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won’t compromise what’s in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won’t allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.  The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone’s maid, or when I act a little selfish.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won’t become anyone elses idea of what they think I ‘should’ be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that! So try to stomp on me, just try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me. You won’t succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch, so be it… I embrace the title and am proud to bear it.

B – Babe
I – In
T – Total
C – Control of
H – Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Heck of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle ‘anything’

I just couldn’t resist

I have been looking to sort of fix up the place when I realized that I could use a new look myself.  I found some great deals online with coupons to places like Old Navy Stores.  I don’t know about you but I love Old Navy Stores.  They have some great deals and some even better sales too.  But what I liked about this site is it’s linked right to Old Navy Stores online and you can use the coupon when you check out.

Shopping online saves you not only with the coupons but you don’t have to run out any of your gas either.  If you live out in the boonies like I do, that adds up quick.  Do an online coupon search and you’ll be amazed at how many sites there are like shopwiki.com.  That’s one of my favorite sites because you can find just about anything on there.

Adding some pizazz to the house

I told you that there were fireplaces in every room and also in the main family room and dining room.  Fireplaces should be a focal point in any room and so I’ve decided to add some pizazz to them to do just that.  I love Blomus Stainless Steel.  It’s not only excellent quality but they make some beautiful things.  I found everything I wanted it at thestainlesssteelstore.com online.  I have gotten some of the fireplaces for some of the rooms from this site since they didn’t have built in fireplaces and they have been a huge hit with my guests.  How do you like it?

fireplace

I was looking to accessorize some of them a little more.   Since some of the fireplaces are Blomus Stainless Steel fireplaces, I really think the fireplace tools would look nice with them.  In fact, there are several Blomus Stainless Steel things I want to get not only for each bedroom but for the kitchen and also for the main family room.  Oh I could go on and on but I better stop before I spend more than I mean to if you know what I mean.  With the economy so tight, my business is already off a bit so I better not splurge too awfully much.  This is the tool set I’m getting.  What do you think?

fireplacetoolset

Time for spring to bring in the new life

Everyone gets into the mood to do spring cleaning and making everything look better after a long winters hibernation in some cases.  Well my place is no different.  Every spring, I always look around to find something that might need a little fine tuning to make the place even more inviting.  Well this year, I decided to start by taking an honest look at it from the road.  I know what it looks like from inside but you need to view from the road to spark some interest in what’s inside.

There is a nice sign at the road telling the name of the place and what it is but it needs a touch of ‘class’.  That I found in a custom address sign.  It hangs off of the sign that has the name on it and I had my choice of what I wanted on top of it.  JustAddressPlaques.com had the best selection I could find online.  I loved the selection they had.  It was hard to decide which one I wanted but once I did and put it up, it was absolutely perfect.  It was just what I needed to bring the attention to my sign that I was looking for.  The home address plaque on the front porch worked great too.

Snow coming!!!!

Well March is making herself known in a big way.  We’re expecting snow tonight and quite a bit of it from what they are predicting.  The funny thing is that even though the economy is in shambles, the ski industry up here has had it’s best year in a long time.  I think part of it is because you can make a day of skiing and make it home that evening.  The motels aren’t doing as well as they would like to but the ski resorts are booming.  We’ll not that far away from a lot of major cities so that helps tremendously.  Now we’ll just have to wait and see what March brings.  Like they say “In like a lion, out like a lamb” so the end of March should be wonderful since this lion of a snow storm is heading at us.