Mom Jeans

I’m finally starting to get my figure back from having babies and it feels good to pull on a pair of jeans and realize that they are too big. I have a drawer full of jeans that I used to wear, so I tried on several pairs and found 2 that fit me nicely right now. The only problem with these two pairs is that they are non name brand jeans. I got them at either WalMart or KMart – I don’t remember which one. They fit, but they don’t look as stylish as I would like.

Maybe that sounds spoiled or conceited, but when I’m getting my shape back, I want to show that off a little. Not to the point of guys whistling when I walk by. More like, someone I haven’t seen for a while seeing me and saying “Wow! You’ve lost weight!”or “You look great!” and know that they mean it.

Shorts vs Long Skirt

Most of the time I like to wear shorts and sandals when I am working around the house or just running errands around town. Shorts are cool and don’t need ironing if you take them right out of the dryer before the wrinkles can set in.

This afternoon I wanted to meet up with a girlfriend who also has a daughter so they could have a play date. So we agreed to meet at a little family friendly restaurant that has a play area for kids. I decided to wear a long cotton skirt instead of shorts. Mommies like to dress up for play dates, too!

Start With a Good Foundation

Funny how little things happen in your life and they bring up little memories of people and places that you otherwise might have forgotten.I was shopping at a little department store to take advantage of the Memorial Day sales and spent some time in the lingerie department. As I was flipping through the racks and looking at the new styles and colors, I could not help but overhear what another pair of shoppers were talking about.  The older woman of the pair was explaining how to pick out the Best Bra to her shopping companion, who I suspect was her granddaughter because of the age difference. I could be wrong, it may have been her daughter, but I really think it was her granddaughter.

That moment took me back about 20 years to a shopping trip with own grandmother. She worked in retail stores all her life and was the queen of shopping and fashion in my world. She taught me about selecting the right bras, panties, slips, and camis and called them our “foundation garments.” These are the items you put on to shape and lift a woman’s body parts and make the street clothes both fit better and look better on you. These days we also have Seamless shape wear as part of our foundation wardrobes, and I like the descriptive quality of the word “foundation” rather than the crass “underwear” or naughty connotations associated with “lingerie.”

One of my favorite new foundation items is the Bra and Cami with cleavage cover so that the deep necklines of so many fashion tees are still wearable in a more conservative atmosphere, such as church on Sundays. The tees can top anything from a pair of jeans to shorts or a skirt, but I don’t like to show so much cleavage at work and at church, so a pretty little cami is a simple and inexpensive fix to the modesty issue. Ad I thank my darling grandmother for teaching me these feminine tricks.

Costumes!

Well one of my favorite holidays is coming up.  I dress up every year. I think that you are never to old to play dress up, it’s fun!  So I was going through some websites to find some reasonable prices on some Elvis costumes for women.  There are not that many costumes like that for a decent price. But, to my surprise I found a website that had just that! halloweencostumes4u.com

Stress

You do not know stress until you try to fit your size 14 butt into a pair of size 12 jeans that are on sale. Men have no idea what stress is. Jobs are not stressful. Shopping at Christmas time is very stressful.  I do not mean going into Wal-Mart at midnight on Christmas Eve to grab up the stuff that no one else wanted… that is not shopping. Making a list and finding everything on your list is shopping! Now back to those jeans, I wonder if I can lose the weight to make them fit by summer, they ARE on sale you know.