You do not know stress until you try to fit your size 14 butt into a pair of size 12 jeans that are on sale. Men have no idea what stress is. Jobs are not stressful. Shopping at Christmas time is very stressful. I do not mean going into Wal-Mart at midnight on Christmas Eve to grab up the stuff that no one else wanted… that is not shopping. Making a list and finding everything on your list is shopping! Now back to those jeans, I wonder if I can lose the weight to make them fit by summer, they ARE on sale you know.